So you discovered that you are pregnant and your whole life turned upside down the past few days. You are disappointed in yourself and not even sure whether this newly formed life inside you deserves to live. How can you possibly discuss this with anyone if you feel like this and what about the shame….
All of us face some or other kind of crisis in our lives sooner or later and no matter how negative you might feel right now, there is always a solution. Believe me. And although the possibility of abortion might have entered your mind – do not even consider it. There are far better solutions.
Your body change when you fall pregnant. That is all part of the preparation process to ensure the development of a healthy baby. A crisis pregnancy will add strain to your body due to additional stress and worry factors. Do not allow this to take a toll on you. Discuss your situation, your feelings, your dreams and your fears with someone you can trust. The sooner you share your emotions, the sooner you will heal from within and the easier your journey will become.
It is always better to explain the way we feel to someone who understands your situation – even if we do get emotional and cry about it – that is fine. After all, that is the way our body and mind accept our situation and solve the problems we are facing. So, it is important to accept the fact that you are having an unplanned, crisis pregnancy.
Now, let us concentrate on the positive side and find some solutions that will be best for yourself and your unborn child. There are two possibilities. You can decide to keep and raise your own child. That will always be the best option. For some of us, this might not be possible as our circumstances do not allow us to do so. If you are not in a position to raise your own child, baby adoption will be the other option to consider.
There are a lot of childless parents who pray for a child that they can rise as their own and their only solution is child adoption. There are also a number of organisations with special people who specialise in this field.
This people are well trained and will be able to support you all the way. It will be best to discuss all your concerns and fears with them before you take your final decision. They will explain what options there are. They will also take special care of you during your pregnancy. With the necessary psychological help.
Remember you are as important as your unborn child and your peace of mind is important for the development of a healthy little baby. They will also provide you with information to make an informed decision that will be best for your circumstances. We are one such organisation. We will be able to advise you on how to take care of yourself during your pregnancy and how to find the right parents for baby adoption.
Contact us now for a free informational meeting to discuss on Crisis Pregnancy